Among other reasons, I am certain that divorce is one of the reasons why some kids are bad these days. Not in a "divorce is bad" or "religious" kind of way. But I think that it changes the way that a child is raised. I have noticed that the majority of single mothers raising kids get it wrong most of the time. They spoil the shit out of their kids and basically give them anything they want. There is no discipline or consequences for actions, like they are trying to be friends with their kids before being a parent. Almost like they think that their kid won't love them if they actually do what a parent should do. A parents job is to prepare a child to take care of himself in the real world.
As to the divorce discussion going on. Although I don't agree with divorce, it is a necessary evil. The following post sums up the problem with the way people think.
So you're ok being in a loveless marriage? I would say not being in love with someone is a pretty good reason to split.
If you don't love someone don't marry them, it's really that simple. If you say the words, "til death do us part", you are in fact making a commitment. Aside from abuse or infidelity. If you just find yourself in a "loveless" marriage you should just deal with it. You made the free will decision now deal with the consequences. As an adult, if you make a commitment you should follow through with it. If you can't do that then you might be one of the "bad kids" that this thread is about.
Seeing all your male bashing posts makes me wonder the same thing about you.
Ha ha, I was wondering the same thing. It's all making sense now, that cat is out of the bag.
Except that I'm a real life person and people on this very site have seen with their own eyes guys that I've gone out with. So...there's that.
Landshark, are you a bot? lol