^ Define "can't". I don't have a problem with disability benefits.
You say you don't have a problem with disability (and I believe you), but many people who are on disability also receive SNAP (i.e. "food stamps"). There are countless examples of people shaming others for buying
the wrong kind of food with SNAP funds, or criticizing them because they are using a SNAP card and aren't driving a 20-year-old rusted-out Dodge, or even because they are accepting food stamps while having the
unmitigated gall to NOT rip out the granite countertops they bought 10 years ago before they were disabled.
Thereb are issues with the "taking care of family members" that I'm not sure how to solve. On the one hand, it feels all kinds of wrong to pay people to take care of their parents (or kids).
The sad irony is that society would rather give a parent assistance so they can afford to pay a stranger to watch their kids while they work a minimum wage job that makes less than the assistance, than to give them an income so they can stay home with their kids.
As Dave mentioned, there is a looming automation crisis. When robots have eliminated nearly all our jobs and all the income is being funneled to the 0.001% who own the robots, there are going to have to be some harsh discussions in this country about
who deserves a decent income.
Businesses generate money, government spends money.
Resources generate
wealth ("money" is literally created by the government, but I know what you meant). The only reason businesses are considered to "own" those resources is because we, the people, have collectively decided that our government will permit them to do so. You can look at the distant socialist empires of Saudi Arabia or Alaska as an example of what happens when government decides to enforce its monopoly claim over resources, and distributes the associated wealth as it sees fit.
Find me the business that can generate wealth without water from the government, electricity from the government, government-maintained roads, public-school-educated employees, government-enforced property rights, etc. The very existence of businesses is derived from the consent of the people, as expressed through their government.