I remember my dad died kinda near the same time you had your loss.
I am so lucky I had siblings to help, because we all did different things. My one brother and sister essentially cleaned out my parents house in a week. It was brutal and they moved out a ton of stuff that they didn't get value for, but the alternativo was losing money from sitting on a house that wasn't selling. We needed the cash to house my father.
It was 40 years worth of stuff and I even think that we had all been working towards that goal even when my parents still lived there.
I imagine it's a momumental task. How far along is the project to clean stuff out? Are you emotionally attached or busy or what?
When I first got here my brothers, a brother's wife, and a niece came by for a day and took the shit they wanted and made a couple trips to Goodwill to "appear" that they were trying to help. Which didn't even make a dent in cleaning out the house. Then when they got the stuff they wanted, they were gone.
My brother with the wife and kids said a couple times that he would be back to help clean stuff out when he was done getting his pool built and had time. But that was a couple years ago and haven't heard shit about it since.
The other brother always tells me he wants certain stuff and to hold on to it, but never comes to get anything. He's too cheap to rent a truck or Uhaul. He probably has several million dollars net worth and still gets up on Black Friday to stock up on cheap batteries at Lowes and unplugs his refrigerator if he leaves town for a day or two. It's weird shit man.
It's strange the stuff that old people keep. An old non working top opening freezer, old empty milk jugs, and other assorted junk. Now that it's getting cooler outside I suppose I can just start tossing shit. Since I don't have a truck, I guess I'll have to pay someone to haul away the larger stuff. There's a whole cabinet full of old pictures, slides, and a slide machine. I'm not really emotionally attached to any of it, but at the same time it's family history so I hate to throw it away.
I guess my brothers think I'm running a storage facility or something. Anyone here need some free shit LOL