It is simple.
The people of Gaza are suffering because that is what Hamas wants. Hamas wants the people of Gaza to suffer and to exaggerate that suffering.
Hamas and it allies have for 80 years been targeting Israeli children and then hiding imosques, schools and hospitals. "You can't touch us, their are civilians around." Placing Israel in a dilemma: either allow the terrorist to escape and re-attack or harm civilians. Too often Israel let the terrorist escape justice only to have more Israelis civilians killed than the number of civilians that would have been killed by eliminating the terrorists. Hamas puts Israel in a lose-lose situation: either cause Gazans to suffer or allow Hamas to kill more Israelis. After Oct 7th the weighting of the relative options has shifted.
But the core problem isn't that when faced with the choice of risking Gazan lives vs risking Israeli lives the balance has shifted towards keeping Israel safe, but why they are in the dilemma in the first place. And that reason is Hamas and how it operates.
Anybody with the least bit of humanity would be demanding that all the hostages be immediately and unconditionally released along with the unconditional surrender of all those responsible for the terror attacks.
The time-honored excuse for atrocities of all kinds: "Look what you made me do"
Hamas places Israel in the dilemma of either Gazan children suffering or Israeli children suffering. And when Israel chooses to protect its own children from Hamas you accuse Israel of atrocities.
The question shouldn't be why am I defending Israel's actions but why are you defending Hamas's tactics.
Dave's criticisms is in good faith, but yours is starting to sound like the rhetoric of those who don't really care about the Gazan children, but whose real goal is to insure that when this conflict is over Hamas is capable of renewing its terror attacks on Israel.