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« on: February 07, 2006, 04:28:30 pm »

Before I get into this, I want to point out, that while I may not agree with some of your political views, I repect them.  I think that some of your views are nuts, quite fankly, but I will never let our differences affect how I treat you as people.  I expect (and demand) that same respect in return.  I encourage good political debate on this site, and do not want any of you to feel that you have to censor your beliefs.

That said...

I am on a mailing list of Dolphins webmasters that keep in touch to discuss promotions, linking, site issues, etc. and I was warned a month or so back about a member named "runtheball".  I was told that he had signed up to another website's forum, where he primarily argued politics.  When asked to cool it, he got very nasty, including calling one of the webmasters a "cunt".  I was warned to ban his IP before he got a change to post.

...but I didn't.

I do not want to censor people, and I think that I've done a pretty good job at welcoming those who don't share my viewpoints, be them sports-wise or political.  We'd had a few other "loose cannons" come on here and become contributors, and I didn't want to cut people off before they had a chance.

So, true to form, runtheball jumped right into the political forum, and to his credit, he never crossed the line.

However, last night he reported this thread to the moderators:
http://www.thedolphinsmakemecry.com/forums/index.php?topic=8294.msg83191#msg with this message to me:

"Not sure why my innocuous statement needed a reply full of personal attacks.  Do you ?"

In it, bsmooth calls him a puppet....but I thought it was fairly mild.  This thread was reviewed by both me and UK_Dolfan and neither of us found anything that was against forum policy or even remotely offensive.  We took no action, but I saw that, having been warned, this could become a problem.  I returned this reply:

"Dude, chill out.
 
He called you a puppet.  Maybe you should avoid political threads. 
I've heard that they've gotten you in trouble before.
 
--Dave
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Here is runtheball's reponse:

"Dude,
Learn to read.  It was more than that. 

I've read some of your replies.  You obviously have an agenda, so suck my dick Dave."


I work too hard on this site in my personal time to have personal attacks sent to me.

So, there you have it.  I hope that nobody feels disenfranchised about their political views, as I assure you it had nothing to do with the decision.  Keep it civil, guys.




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« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2006, 04:36:30 pm »

precisely why everyone needs to calm down, take a deep breath, and lighten up.  Too serious, these forums are supposed to be entertaining.
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« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2006, 04:39:54 pm »

The moral of this story is not to tell the owner of this site to suck your dick.  Even if he's into that, it's a great way to get you banned from his site.  Grin
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« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2006, 04:41:16 pm »

To think I edited my reply down to just calling him a puppet. I didn't think it was over the line.
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« Reply #4 on: February 07, 2006, 04:46:38 pm »

precisely why everyone needs to calm down, take a deep breath, and lighten up. Too serious, these forums are supposed to be entertaining.

No man...you're missing the point -- it has nothing to do with how serious the posts are.  It's about being respectful.  ...and not telling me to suck your dick.  (or anyone else for that matter)
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« Reply #5 on: February 07, 2006, 04:52:29 pm »

Hey Dave, why don't you get down on your knees and s......

ARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGgg

I can't do it, I like making fun of everyone here way too much. 
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« Reply #6 on: February 07, 2006, 05:05:28 pm »

Huh, I thought what got him booted (before reading the post) was this little nugget:

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I honor your service and hope that you get the chance to put your life on the line very soon.

Am I the only one that read that as "I hope you die"?
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« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2006, 05:05:37 pm »

No man...you're missing the point -- it has nothing to do with how serious the posts are. It's about being respectful. ...and not telling me to suck your dick. (or anyone else for that matter)
I totally get it, and it all stemmed from arguing in the first place and people calling other people names and people getting insulted, then more insulted when someone tells someone to "chill out".

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« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2006, 05:13:34 pm »

Sorry to read that someone was banned.  Like Dave said, most people that have been around usually get the jist of things around here.

I also hate when people like this go nuts, because it gives the moderate right wingers like me a bad rep.
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« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2006, 05:22:20 pm »

Sorry to read that someone was banned.  Like Dave said, most people that have been around usually get the jist of things around here.

I also hate when people like this go nuts, because it gives the moderate right wingers like me a bad rep.

That was the point I was trying to make when I posted in Brians thread about debate being a good thing, but not getting personal about it.
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« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2006, 05:25:31 pm »

Sorry to read that someone was banned.  Like Dave said, most people that have been around usually get the jist of things around here.

I also hate when people like this go nuts, because it gives the moderate right wingers like me a bad rep.

This guy is right winger? I just thought he liked to argue.
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« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2006, 05:26:05 pm »

You know aside from Tommy's temporary ban, this is the first user I have seen (to the best of my recollection anyways) in the 1 1/2 years that I have been here get banned. Compared to any other board I have ever been on that is phenomenal. It just goes to show what a great site you have here Dave and what a great community we truly are. It's one of the things that keeps me coming back, and one of the things I really value about my experiences here. It's too bad not everyone can realize the value of this place!!!!! Keep up the good work guys!!!!!
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« Reply #12 on: February 07, 2006, 05:27:48 pm »

Does everyone realize this isn't run_to_win who was banned? 
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« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2006, 05:28:54 pm »

Yes
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« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2006, 05:36:17 pm »

Yes!!!!!
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